Sunday, October 29, 2006

Two Paths

When a major tragic life chaning event happens in your life, you have two paths for which you can chose to travel.

One, probably the most traveled path, is to let the the tragedy get you down. This is the easiest road to take because this is our natural feelings, a natural reaction. But what does this do for you? Nothing. I feel it only makes things worse.

Two, you can deal with the pain, accept what happened, and get a grip on yourself. Try to stay positve, keep busy, and keep communication lines open with friends and family. In the end that is the only important thing the love you give and receive from loved ones.

It sounds so easy writing and reading this but this can be a very hard thing to do. Most things in life aren't easy.

Just my 2 cents.